Japan is famously polite, but the “rules” are mostly common sense once you know them. You won’t offend anyone by making an honest mistake — locals are forgiving with visitors — but knowing these will help you blend in and travel smoothly.
Trains & public spaces
- Keep quiet on trains. No phone calls; set your phone to silent (“manner mode”).
- Queue neatly on the marked lines, and let people off before you board.
- Escalators: stand on one side (left in Tokyo, right in Osaka), walk on the other.
- Backpacks off in crowded trains; hold them in front or on the rack.
Eating & drinking
- No tipping — it’s not expected and can confuse staff.
- Say “itadakimasu” before eating if you like; “gochisousama” after.
- Chopstick manners: don’t stick them upright in rice or pass food chopstick-to-chopstick (funeral symbolism).
- Slurping noodles is fine — even encouraged.
- Don’t eat while walking in most places; step aside or eat where you bought it.
Shoes, temples & onsen
- Shoes off where you see a step up and slippers (ryokan, some restaurants, homes, temples).
- At shrines/temples, be quiet and respectful; follow posted photo rules.
- Onsen (hot springs): wash thoroughly before entering; no swimsuits; keep the small towel out of the water. Tattoos can be an issue at some places — check ahead.
Everyday courtesy
- Carry your trash; public bins are rare. A small bag helps.
- Cash handling: place money on the little tray, not into the hand.
- A small bow or nod goes a long way; “arigatou” and “sumimasen” cover a lot.
That’s it — nothing scary. For more practical basics, see our first-time-in-Japan tips, then start planning with the 7-day itinerary.